As long as you think about the past and the future, you will never move on with your future goals. This is today, your day, the only day you have. So just think about the present. You may not want to recall the things which happened in the past but if you don’t, you allow the part of your mind that conceals and glosses over hurt to dominate and the result, you never move on. So forget about the past. Why do you have to forget the past and moving forward? It’s pointless to keep thinking about what happened in the past. Sometimes even we need to forget some people from our past. Becuase they just don’t belong in our future.
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Accept that you cannot change what happened in the past. Yes, you can’t change it physically. But you can change the way you feel it and at least handle it from now on. Even if you are not able to handle it, I’m pretty sure that you will hurt yourself and that will affect your new experiences and relationships. Don’t think about what happened in your past instead just take it as motivation to change or as a lesson learned.
The past is one of your chapters and you don’t need to close that chapter instead just turn the next page. Sometimes we learned things change or people change and it doesn’t mean you forgot the past or try to cover it up. It simply means that you move on and that is the only way to achieve your goals. keep in mind that yesterday does not equal today. There are new and better things waiting for you, so enjoy your every moment.
When I talk about “Forget about the past and move on”, a funny but thoughtful story come across my mind and I just want to share that story with you all. A wise man once sat in the audience and cracked a joke. All laughed like crazy. After a moment, he cracked the same joke again and a little fewer people laughed this time. He cracked the same joke again and again when there was no laughter in the crowd, he smiled and said, “When you can’t laugh at the same joke again and again, then why do you keep crying over the same thing over and over again?”
So, what you think about this statement, “Forgetting the past and moving forward”? Hopefully, you guys agree with me. If not write your opinion and suggestions in the comment box below. We all have a different mindset and different way of thinking. So write what you thinking about this statement.